My last entry was about my future and since then I have decided that I will not re-contract for a second year with the JET program. I will tell you that I did not come to this decision lightly. I have been thinking about it for a long time and have had countless discussions with those people close to me, especially my family. After these deliberations I decided that the best next step in my life is for me to go back to Illinois. While visiting during Christmas break, I did a lot of soul searching to see if I really did want to go back to Illinois. And as the days went by I could really see myself living and working in Chicago. I saw a future where I was happy being close to family and friends, while at the same time moving forward with my career and gaining some work experience. This feeling only grew when I stepped off the plane upon my return back to Japan. Don’t get me wrong, I have greatly enjoyed the time I have spent here in Japan and will continue to make the most of the time I have remaining, but it definitely feels good knowing that come July 2011, I will be moving back to America. What exactly I will be doing when I return is still undecided. I have been in communication with a friend (Kris Adamik) who would like to live with me in Chicago and I find that idea absolutely exciting! I have wanted to live in Chicago for a really long time and now it looks as though that is a real possibility. So if you have any leads for a job that you think I might be interested in let me know!
Quick Highlights of the Past Two Months
Hikigawa 5K Race-This was my first race ever and I was so excited to be able to run in it! I did a lot of training before race day and found both training and the race to be fun and stress-relieving! I ran the race in 26 minutes and 23 seconds and I was very satisfied with my time. Because of I enjoyed this race so much I signed up for a half-marathon in February! Yeah, a half-marathon.
What was I thinking right? 13.1 miles! Insane just to think about it but my only goal is to finish it…..in 2 hours and 30 minutes. It might be long shot but you have to aim high right? What did I learn?.......If you want to meet your goals you have to work for them! Thanksgiving…in Japan- This was the second Thanksgiving holiday that I had been away from home and I am immensely grateful to have been with great people both times. This time, 9 of my friends here in the area gathered to give thanks for the many blessings we each have in our lives. There was so much delicious food on the menu let me tell you! I volunteered to cook the turkey, a huge task at any thanksgiving dinner and an even bigger task in Japan because the ovens are pretty small.
Nevertheless, I took the challenge and as the other people at the dinner can tell you, I passed. The turkey came out pretty tasty and on time! I also cooked some cheesecake which I was taught how to make by my mother! Both my responsibilities came out great as did everyone else’s! I especially liked Danny’s buckeyes which I enjoyed for a few days after thanksgiving! What did I learn?.....Good friends make a pretty good substitute for family!Mid-Year ALT Seminar-
This seminar took place right after thanksgiving and I had a really good time meeting new people and seeing those whom I have come to call my friends here in Japan. The presentations were fun and interactive and the group dinner was entertaining. What did I learn?......You have to let people find their own path. Christmas Vacation!- Surprise!
I decided to go home for Christmas back in September probably because I was a little homesick at that time. I wanted to see my family but I wanted to do it big so I didn’t tell anyone I was going home. Well, I told my brother because someone had to pick me up at the airport….really I wanted to make sure that I still got Christmas presents! Haha. It was really hard to keep this huge secret from my family, but I was very conscious of it, so I did a pretty good job. I did tell friends I was coming home so that we could make plans to see each other ahead of time but I made sure that they left any talk of my coming home a secret…aka, off of facebook. They pretty much all did a good job and the surprise worked! My brother, along with my niece, picked me up at O’hare so the first person to be surprised was my niece. They were waiting for me just outside baggage claim and when I first walked through the doors, my niece didn’t even notice me! I went around her and walked up behind her. Her reaction? Complete silence. I think she was stunned. Her dad had told her they were waiting for Justin Bieber so I presume that some of her reaction was disappointment that I wasn’t Justin Bieber. When I asked her if she was sad that I wasn’t Bieber she said she wasn’t so I’ll assume she was being honest. I hope. Haha. The next person on the list was my sister. We stopped at her house on our way home. We walked up to her house and I hid behind a corner where she wouldn’t be able to see me when she opened the door. When she did open the door, I jumped out. “What are you doing here!” is what she said next. Then she started crying. Nice to know I am loved Then we went to my house to see my mom! My brother walked in first and I waited about a minute before I walked into the living room where she was watching tv. When she saw me she got up, asked what I was doing home, and then started crying and hitting me yelling “Why didn’t you tell me!” She kept this up for a few minutes and then turned on my brother who defended himself by telling her that I forced him not to say anything, which is true. I think overall she was very glad that I was home for the holidays. Just a few days before I went home, I had talked to her on the phone and told her that I was going to be spending Christmas in Tokyo to I make sure that any thoughts she might have had of me coming home were erased. This worked because she really had no idea! Then I went to go get my haircut at a barber shop which is owned by my friend’s brother. My friend was working that day and when she saw me she also started crying! All these wonderful receptions may have helped my make my decision to move back home…maybe. The rest of the time I spent visiting family and friends which was awesome.
I saw my fraternity brothers and spent NYE in Chicago with some of my closest friends. Over all, my trip was great and I am thankful that I had the opportunity to go back.
While I was home, I thought about the things that had changed while I was gone and I realized that things were pretty much the same as when I left, but what had changed was me. My view of my life and my world was changed by my experience living and working in a different country just as it had changed during the time I was in China. I can’t wait to see how I grow and change during the remainder of my time here in Japan. What did I learn?....You have to do what makes you happy!
I saw my fraternity brothers and spent NYE in Chicago with some of my closest friends. Over all, my trip was great and I am thankful that I had the opportunity to go back.While I was home, I thought about the things that had changed while I was gone and I realized that things were pretty much the same as when I left, but what had changed was me. My view of my life and my world was changed by my experience living and working in a different country just as it had changed during the time I was in China. I can’t wait to see how I grow and change during the remainder of my time here in Japan. What did I learn?....You have to do what makes you happy!










